Glen Rock Jewish Center
682 Harristown Road
Glen Rock, NJ 07452
Phone:  201-652-6624   Email: office@grjc.org
 
 
 
 
 
June 26-27, 2009/ 5 Tammuz 5769
 
Glen Rock Jewish Center  
Shabbat Shalom!
 
MAZEL TOV!
class of 2009 
 
Congratulations to our High School graduates
 
Scott Berman
Joshua Givant
Sarah Goldstein
Sean Hammond
Daniel Koch
Shir Michael
Shoshana Remer
Jason Schoenberg 
Samuel Sperling
and to
Ariel and David Kay
(our Nusery School Director Hilarie's twins)
cap and gown 2 
shabbat dinner

COMMUNITY
SHABBAT DINNER AT GRJC


FRIDAY, JULY 10, 2009, 6:30 PM

 
Join us for a Shabbat dinner in the GRJC social hall at 6:30 pm, and then we'll participate in the Friday evening service.

We'll explain and then perform together all the Friday night rituals including candle-lighting, kiddush, hand-washing, blessing children, and the blessing after the meal.

Dinner will include:  Brisket, Chicken, Vegetarian

$9 per individual
$18 per family

To sign up, please fill out and mail in the form contained in the June Bulletin. The form will also be sent by email.  




 
Glen Rock 4th of July parade
July 4 parade
 
This year July 4 
falls on Shabbat.
The GRJC will hold Shabbat services at 7:30 am on 7/4, allowing congregants time to view the parade when it begins at 9:30.
 
As part of the
Religious Communities of Glen Rock, GRJC members
have, in past years, pushed grocery carts and solicited cash donations for the food banks during the parade.  Since these are not activities we do on Shabbat, we are asking our members this year to drop off non-perishable food items and/or monetary donations at the GRJC next week leading up to the parade, or the week after the July 4th weekend.  Our Social Action Committee will deliver your donations to the pantries, which are sorely in need of contributions, given the current economic climate.
A SAFE AND HAPPY 4TH!
 
God Bless America! 
 
 
SAVE THE
CORRECTED 
DATES!

 
FRIDAY, AUG. 14
 
GRJC BBQ and Erev Shabbat Service
under the tent in
Rabbi Tow and Rabbi Schwartz' backyard. 

 SUNDAY, AUG 30
Family White Water Rafting in Lehigh, PA
 
THURSDAY,
 SEPT 24
Annual Men's Club Golf Outing 
 
shabbat candles 

 Shabbat, June 26-27, 2009
5 Tammuz 5769

 
Torah portion:  Korach
Bamidbar (Numbers) 16:20-17:24

 

We light our Shabbat candles at 8:14 pm

Shabbat evening services will begin at 8 pm

Joshua Ross will become a Bar Mitzvah this Shabbat
We wish an early Mazel Tov! to the Ross family
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Saturday morning services will begin at 9 am
 

 

Shabbat ends at 9:24 pm on Saturday.

 

 
Israel Trip-1
THE ISRAEL TRIP IS ON!
After a successful opening meeting, we're moving forward with the Israel trip that's scheduled for February 6-16, 2010.  We have the proposed itinerary available as well as the costs.  Please contact Rabbi Tow (rabbi@grjc.org) to learn more about this exciting Israel opportunity!  This trip offers a maximum Israel experience at the most affordable price available today--a unique opportunity!
*See Tel Aviv, the Golan, the Galilee, Jerusalem, Masada, the Dead Sea and more...
*Participate in an archaeological dig in Jerusalem.
*Dinner with members of a Masorti/Conservative congregation in Rehovot.
*Yad Vashem Holocaust Memorial
*Wine tasting in the Golan Heights Winery
*See where King David lived
*And so much more...

 
Join us on our Israel adventure!

 
Shabbat Shalom to the GRJC family

Question When we offer the "Mi Sheberach" healing prayer we offer the sick individual's Hebrew name and then son of/daughter of (ben/bat) followed by the mother's name.  For example, Eliezer ben Chana or Batya bat Leah.  Why do we cite the mother's name for the healing prayer?

Answer:
    The reason we cite the mother's name in the healing prayer comes from the way that the Zohar, the central book of Jewish mystical thinking, explores and explains a statement King David makes in Psalm 86.  The Zohar, believed to largely be the work of Spanish kabbalist Moshe ben Shem Tov de Leon (1240-1305) is the foundational work of kabbalah or Jewish mysticism.  Though Moshe de Leon wrote most of the work, it is attributed to Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, a student of Rabbi Akiva who lived in the middle of the second century CE.  The first section of the Zohar is a series of midrashim, or rabbinic expositions, on the weekly parashiyot, Torah portions.  The answer to our question above begins in one of the midrashim on parshat Lech-Lecha, the third portion in Sefer Braysheet, the Book of Genesis.

    The answer begins when Rabbi Shimon starts to explain a verse from Psalm 86 (Verse 16).  Before we take a close look at this verse, it is necessary to explain that Jewish tradition ascribes the Psalms to David as the poet.  The Zohar in our passage assumes that the reader accepts this ascription, and, as it happens, Psalm 86 is one of the Psalms that opens with the words "A Prayer of David".  The verse in question is as follows, "Turn to me and have mercy on me; grant Your strength to Your servant and deliver the son of Your maidservant."  Rabbi Shimon quotes the beginning of this verse and then proceeds to unearth its "secret meaning".  First, Rabbi Shimon compares "grant Your strength to Your servant" to a verse with a similar statement in another book, "...God will give strength to God's king..."(1 Samuel 2:10) based on the similarity of the wording in these verses. He argues that the king referred to by the verse in Samuel, and by extension the servant of God mentioned in Psalm 86, is the messiah who is often referred to as "melech ha'mashiach", "King Messiah" since the Messiah is to be a descendant of King David's house.  Note that 1 Samuel 2:10 is a verse that Hannah speaks in a moment of thankful prayer. Hannah is the childless woman whose prayers were at first mistaken by the priest Eli for a drunken woman's ramblings and then were answered with the birth of the great prophet Samuel.

    Rabbi Shimon in his midrash continues to the next part of Psalm 86, verse 16 in which David prays, "...deliver the son of Your maidservant."  Rabbi Shimon asks, "But wasn't David the son of Yishai (Jesse)?" Then he states, "He made his statement in the name of his mother, and not his father, for we have established that when a person comes to request something of God, one must go with what is certain.  Therefore, David mentioned his mother and not his father."  In order to clarify Rabbi Shimon's midrash, we take note that David does not mention anything like, "son of your servant".  Rather, he only calls to mind his mother.  Also, the Zohar suggests that motherhood is reliable whereas fatherhood is unreliable.  As Rabbi Alfred Kolatch writes in the Second Jewish Book of Why, "...at the time of birth one is always positive of the identity of the mother of the child, but one cannot be positive of the identity of the child's father.  Jewish law therefore established that if a child's mother is Jewish, the child is Jewish..."(p. 26)  The implication for the issue of Mi Sheberach is that we use the mother's name in the spirit of the certainty of motherhood.

    There is also the additional meaning attached to using the mother's name by virtue of the connection in Rabbi Shimon's teaching with Hannah.  Hannah, in her prayer, thanks God for the gift of new life.  Later in her prayer she exclaims, "...the  faltering are girded with strength...The Lord deals death and gives life."(1 Sam. 2: 4,6)  In our healing prayer, we pray that the ailing individual will also have renewed strength and life, and that he or she will receive blessing just as Hannah did.  We also may consider the mother's role as nurturer as an underlying reason for citing the mother's name in the healing prayer.  Jewish tradition recognizes the important role of the father in raising a child, but there is that special connection between the mother and the child she bears (or adopts, or fosters, or raises) that likely contributed to the custom of using the mother's name for our Mi Sheberach.

 
 
 
 
 

 

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