Glen Rock Jewish Center
682 Harristown Road
Glen Rock, NJ 07452
Phone:  201-652-6624   Email: office@grjc.org
 
 
 
 
 
July 3-4, 2009/ 12 Tammuz 5769
Glen Rock Jewish Center  
Shabbat Shalom!
 
Glen Rock 4th of July parade
July 4 parade
 
This year July 4 
falls on Shabbat.
The GRJC will hold Shabbat services at
7:30a am on 7/4,
allowing congregants time to view the parade when it begins at 9:30.
 
As part of the
Religious Communities of Glen Rock, GRJC members
have, in past years, pushed grocery carts and solicited cash donations for the food banks during the parade.  Since these are not activities we do on Shabbat, we are asking our members  to drop off non-perishable food items and/or monetary donations at the GRJC during the week after the July 4th weekend.  Our Social Action Committee will deliver your donations to the pantries, which are sorely in need of contributions, given the current economic climate.
A SAFE AND HAPPY 4TH!
 
God Bless America! 
  
STILL TIME TO RSVP!
 
shabbat dinner


COMMUNITY SHABBAT DINNER AT GRJC

FRIDAY,
 JULY 10  6:30 PM


 
Join us for a Shabbat dinner in the GRJC social hall at 6:30 pm, and then we'll participate in the Friday evening service.

We'll explain and then perform together all the Friday night rituals including candle-lighting, kiddush, hand-washing, blessing children, and the blessing after the meal.

Dinner will include: Brisket, Chicken, Vegetarian

$9 per individual
$18 per family

RSVP DEADLINE EXTENDED TO
TUES., JULY 7 
 
Call the GRJC
office 201-652-6624. 
 
8th Annual
GRJC BBQ 
and  
 Erev Shabbat Service
under the
tent at Rabbi Tow and Rabbi Schwartz's home
 
Friday
 August 14  
6:00 pm
 
BBQ 
 
Details to follow
very shortly!
SAVE THE
DATES!

 
SUNDAY
 AUG 30
Family White Water Rafting in Lehigh, PA
 
THURSDAY
 SEPT 24
Annual Men's Club Golf Outing 
 
Deadline for
submissions
for the 
Summer  
 GRJC Bulletin is Friday, July 10.      
 
Email all copy, photos, etc. to
shabbat candles 

 Shabbat, July 3-4, 2009
12 Tammuz 5769

1776-2009, Celebrating the 233rd Anniversary of our Nation's Independence
"Proclaim liberty throughout the land, and to all its inhabitants."-Leviticus 25:10

 
Torah portion:  Chukat-Balak
Bamidbar (Numbers) 21:21-22:38

 

We light our Shabbat candles at 8:14 pm

Shabbat evening services will begin at 8 pm

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Saturday morning services will begin at 7:30 am
(And will be followed by a kiddush-breakfast.)
 

 

Shabbat ends at 9:22 pm on Saturday.

 

 
Israel Trip-1
THE ISRAEL TRIP IS ON!
After a successful opening meeting, we're moving forward with the Israel trip that's scheduled for February 6-16, 2010.  We have the proposed itinerary available as well as the costs.  Please contact Rabbi Tow (rabbi@grjc.org) to learn more about this exciting Israel opportunity!  This trip offers a maximum Israel experience at the most affordable price available today--a unique opportunity!
*See Tel Aviv, the Golan, the Galilee, Jerusalem, Masada, the Dead Sea and more...
*Participate in an archaeological dig in Jerusalem.
*Dinner with members of a Masorti/Conservative congregation in Rehovot.
*Yad Vashem Holocaust Memorial
*Wine tasting in the Golan Heights Winery
*See where King David lived
*And so much more...

 
Join us on our Israel adventure!

 
 Dear GRJC family,

It is my goal to be of service to all congregants and members of our GRJC family at large.

In order to better serve you, I would ask for your help and support:

 
  • When there is a family member who is in the hospital, ill at home, or elsewhere, and would appreciate a visit from me, please let me know.  We can also add the individual's name to the healing prayers we recite on Shabbat and holidays.  If you have a parent or relative in independent or assisted living or in a nursing home, please let me know so that I can make a visit.
     
  • When there is, God forbid, a death, please contact me first before being in touch with the funeral parlor so that we can work together to create a meaningful memorial service and shivah observance for your loved one.
Thank you!
-Rabbi Tow


 
Shabbat Shalom to the GRJC family


Question:
Why do we wash our hands before eating bread on Shabbat, holidays, and throughout the year?  How do we do the handwashing ritual?

Answer:

We only do the ritual hand-washing before eating a meal with bread.  Bread, according to the Talmud, was the centerpiece of a meal.  The bread was itself used to dip into other items served on the table, just as we find in our Passover Seder.

The challah that we eat on Shabbat, and holidays as well, serves the function of the bread for the meal, and so we engage in a ritual hand-washing in order to prepare to eat it.  The reason for this ritual goes back to the days of the ancient Temple in Jerusalem.  The priests (kohanim) would engage in a ritual hand-washing both before attending the offering of sacrifices and before eating from the sacrifices that were offered.  This washing made their hands both clean and ritually pure.

After the destruction of the Temple, the Rabbis who helped reformulate Jewish tradition for a post-Temple world wished to maintain the memory of the Temple rite within Jewish life.  They taught that our tables are similar to the Temple altar and that we stand in the place of the priests who attended the altar.  As a result, the Rabbis instituted the hand-washing ritual into all our more significant meals, that is, meals served with bread.  If there's no bread being served at a meal, then hand-washing is not required.  It is also important to note that if we wash hands and say motzi, then we need not say a separate blessing over the other foods served at the meal.  A related issue arises as to what constitutes bread (e.g. Do we say motzi over pizza? [Most would say yes to this question]), but this is a topic for another discussion.  

We do the ritual hand-washing with what Jewish law refers to as a "kli", vessel, that holds about one half pint of water.  Special hand-washing cups often have two handles that make pouring the water over our hands easier since we will be pouring with both the left and right hand.  We wash the right hand first (left handers do the opposite) by pouring water over it, then once over the left.  Next, we pour over right, left and then a third time right, left.

Why 3 times?  The first washing is supposed to remove the dirt or other filth from our hands.  The second washing clears away the water from the first washing that is impure due to contact with the hands.  The third washing then completes the purification of the hands.  Jewish law teaches that we should wash the whole hand up to the wrist.

When do we say the blessing and what is the blessing?  There are two approaches to when we say the blessing.  The first suggests that we say the blessing before pouring any water.  The second approach suggests that we say the blessing as we dry our hands.  

The hand-washing blessing goes like this:

Baruch Atah Ado--nai Elo--heinu Melech ha'Olam, asher kidshanu be'mitzvotav ve'tzivanu, al ne'tilat ya'da'yim.

After we say this blessing, we do not talk until we have a taste of the challah so that there is no interruption between the blessing and the action that follows from the blessing.

On Shabbat and holidays we usually recite kiddush, then wash our hands, and then say motzi.  Here in the synagogue on Shabbat morning we follow the practice, one that is also based in the Shulchan Aruch (Code of Jewish Law), of first washing hands, then saying kiddush and then reciting the motzi.  This practice is often referred to as the German custom.

You may wish to consider purchasing a hand-washing cup for Shabbat and holidays.  There are all types of cups, from simple plastic to ceramic and metal. 

 
handwash cup
 

If you have a question about Judaism that you think would be a good subject for this column, please let me know by emailing it to me at rabbi@grjc.org.
                                                              -- Rabbi Tow 



 

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